hi there let we share about my journal daily, i had remember three days a go i met my old friend in my own town, I met her at one of the shops and she looks very busy, with my sense of i just greet her for a while and a little help some of her groceries, not how long she’s invited me to disappear tired all day at this shopping center, with drink some ice tea at some coffeeshop.. for a while we have standard talk, until she spilled her resentment..she talk’s about her life, mean her life after marriage its never changing day by day she felt, like taking a babies, or must preparing some extra power to taking his husband everyday.. minute by minute im also hearing her stories telling. until i find my self to thinkhing I’m not supposed to be here, obviously after we have long conversation i ask to my heart as ussualy in some place ive ever known..
when you decide to get married, you will be ready to accept anything that would happen after this, as you grow up in your marriage, you will learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let us down, probably will. you’ll have your heart broken and you’ll break others’ hearts. you must be prepared to accept the consequences, you’ll fight with your partner or maybe even fall in love with other, and you’ll cry because time is flying by..
remebered me how as your life went teenager in advance with some best friends feel youre act love like you’ve never been hurt. but indeed its only passed away till you grown up and have other ways to think:
because Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances.
it will be like you in your marriage. You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain. and hold someone’s hand, comfort a friend and you will find a beautiful happiness there with your partner, with your family that you’ve created.
gives me more experiences to view the world wider about marriagge, there is something that i learn how we can’t trust everyone eventhou they act nice to us.. life can be deceiving when you get trapped many times, therefore we take every lesson to be our guidelines.
after 4 yrs I spent my time with my partner the more I know him every day, and will miss him more, if I did not hear him arguing, laughing, and spoiled to me. then expectation defines as a hope, a dream that we wish to come true, expectation brings joy and also disappointment
how can we put ourselves in the right direction? just stay in the straight line..
where we dont go too far or too far behind? if we dont think about anything, just let everything flow..
a wedding was not just a share and said the love affection, but also brings together the original nature each of us that we must accept the consequences every day until we are separated by death, if indeed ant attempt to exhaust it’s will good you’re talking about your spouse-to-heart
Don’t be afraid life after marriage its so beautifull, in the moment. because every second you spend angry or upset with your partner is a second of happiness you can never get back.. trust me..
-inside home in the early morning
